![]() The person is a “good friend” only when it is convenient. If a person doesn’t have much depth, than there might be legitimate cause for concern.ĩ. If you can’t figure out the person that should be a warning sign. The idea of not being able to read a person is still logical. The idea might seem to be contradictory of thinking that the person is a phony. There’s a reason why a person comes off as a phony. And no! It doesn’t make a person judgmental to think that somebody is phony. If somebody comes off as phony, nine times out of ten the person is probably phony. So if a person keeps saying, “I’m busy” time after time you should definitely not be impressed. At the very least “I’m busy” becomes boring after awhile. A real friend would have a legitimate reason for not wanting to be bothered. There’s only so many times that a person can say, “I’m busy”. The person doesn’t even care enough to come up with real excuse. So while this point should not be the end all be all, it can still serves as a warning sign.Ħ. Knowing “exactly what to say” is another indicator that the person is manipulative. And although the matter might seem unrelated to being a bad friend, the two are very much connected. Some people will say anything to get a person into bed with them. It isn’t even about making a value judgment about sex. The idea can apply to both men and women (since they both sleep around). That’s disgusting since that reveals the person is a coward. But that does not mean that a person should make you the problem. It might be fair to say that no one is perfect. People don’t always realize manipulation does not even have to be blatant. The person tries to turn the tables on you. Real connections are important in life.Ĥ. Technology should not be the primary method of communication. Both technology and real person provide a balance. A person should want to be bothered with both online/via text and in person. When a person will only mainly communicate with you over Facebook messages or texts as opposed in real person that is another red flag. This point relates to the business about hanging out in a general sense. Your friend rarely wants to be bothered in person. But if a person never wants to be bothered, that’s troubling. However, if a person uses that as an excuse that is just bullshit. It is understandable that people are busy. If a person isn’t interested in being a real friend, then honesty is required. If a person does that the majority of the time, that is just plain unacceptable. It is one thing to say that a person will occasionally text a one liner or a brief response. The person’s text messages are superficial. first, you say, "I'm not your friend," then you call him "buddy".1. It's just a play on words, as well as saying the direct opposite of what you actually mean. Usually occurring on message boards, the first person says "I'm not your friend buddy" and the next person will use the use the last word in the first comment as the first word in their comment, and will switch the their last word with either "pal", or "guy". I'm not your friend buddy is an internet phenomenon that was inspired by an episode of "South Park". It's used when perhaps something has just happened, that might harm your relationship, so you say, "I'm not your friend, buddy", and then you have a good laugh, and then both of you will understand what has passed, is past. It's a joke that you would say to your friend, to tell them that they are your friends still. ![]()
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